Happy Weekend!

Another busy week basically finished! Although I have a lot of work to do over the weekend (and still some work I need to finish from last week...oops), I will be productive in the comforts of home. I love living in the city, but I need a break from the craziness that I have to deal with at school and just spend time with my family. Not to mention, I get to enjoy a flat screen HDTV and mom's homecooking...can't complain!

Since Thanksgiving is coming up in a month, I've decided to dedicate one post every week until Thanksgiving to something that I am most appreciative of in my life. And I can't think of a great way to begin this than with my own family!

Last year, I rarely ever went home on weekends. I was super busy with school-related obligations on campus to have time to go home, and I also didn't really want to. I just wanted to be an independent girl on my own in college. But this year, with many changes happening with my family, I feel like now is the best time to be with them and catch up on lost time, so to speak.

I may fight with my parents a lot, they may be so irritated with me often, and I may threaten to leave my house plenty of times, but they are still my family. More than ever, I realize how lucky I am to have parents who care so much and have siblings who I can inspire and guide throughout life. We may not see eye-to-eye on many things, but they are such a big part of me, and I truly feel blessed that I have a family that loves me and keeps me grounded. Sure, they have a tendency to be harsh on me in some aspects (a reason why I never felt "good enough" throughout my whole life), but it makes me stronger and I know better now that I am control in my own life. And if anything, my family has taught me that no one is perfect. They're human too. They have their flaws. No family is "perfect." That in itself is really comforting.

Without my family (the good and the bad), I'd be nothing. And I can't be more thankful for them.

Bottoms Up! ...with H2O

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Today, for some reason, the skin on my face felt a bit taut and uncomfortable. Mixed with my exhaustion and lightheadedness, I eventually realized that it could only be one thing: dehydration.

I'll admit, I never really drank enough water daily. Since I also drink coffee every day (and the occasional soft drink), I definitely need to be hydrated more often. I know that the "8 (ounces) x 8 rule" (a cup of water eight times a day) is a standard that has been reiterated multiple times. But in middle school health class, I actually learned that the proper way of determining how much water you need to drink is to take your weight, divide it in half, and that would be roughly the number of ounces of water you need to drink daily.

So I did that little calculation (and no, I won't share my weight...tsk tsk), and I do not drink nearly as many ounces of water that I should. So how to remedy this dehydration? Plan and simple....have water on me at all times!

I have an aluminum reusable water bottle that I used on a regular basis, but unfortunately its use has only been dwindled down to the times I go to Zumba class (which, also unfortunately, has dwindled as well). Making a habit of carrying water with me will ensure that I will not be dehydrated throughout the day. Plus, it's eco-friendly and super convenient, how could you beat that?

Also, having the water bottle will prevent me from getting sugary drinks when I'm picking up lunch, since I have a drink with me anyways. Not only am I staying hydrated, but I'm also cutting out a lot of unnecessary sugars and calories that are in sweet drinks.

So if you are feeling parched, load up on the water! Even though hot chocolate may feel nice during the dry, cold days of fall and winter, be sure to have some water on the side to keep your body properly hydrated.

Don't be a slouch!

I was flipping through my pictures of my time in Paris, and I came across one photo of myself that made me feel a bit uneasy, more so than I usually am whenever I look at pictures of myself. This particular photo annoyed me especially so much because...I was slouching horribly. My body looked like a stump sitting at the Luxembourg Gardens, and though I seemed happy, my posture didn't look it.

I know, I know...everyone slouches. Well, maybe not everyone, but it's pretty common and I'm not the only person who does it. But I can't help but feel a bit bothered at my horrible posture.

So for a week I've been trying to snap out of this slouching stance. Slouching has never been something that I take notice of when I'm sitting down, but I made sure that took note of it this past week. Whenever I caught myself slouching in my seat, I would snap out of it very quickly and straighten up my back and slightly drop my shoulders down to a relaxed but poised level. At first it felt a bit weird, but gradually I made a habit to straighten up and it didn't take me long to notice whether I was slouching or not.

And I must say...not only am I saving my back from developing a hunch in the future, but I also am lifting my psyche when I sit with better posture. It's as if I feel stronger and more in control whenever I sit up straight. This all may sound silly, but simply sitting upright can shape my mood significantly. Besides that, I felt like I looked better. From the outside, I might even look like I have some confidence in me!

Even a friend pointed out that I had "superb" posture the other day when I was sitting on an outdoor bench. People take notice!

So remember: to get out of that slump, don't be a slouch! If you need to find your inner Duchess of Cambridge to do so, then so be it.

Guilty.

I'm guilty of a lot of things. Eating too much ice cream, washing my colors and darks together, forgetting to floss...and avoiding my blog.

Time hasn't been my best friend lately. And I've been going through the same humdrums of college life, but with a little emotional "quarter-life crisis" kick.

Times are a-changin' and I need to change myself. No more whining! No more crying! It's time for me to pick myself up from these rocky few weeks and start creating positive constants in my life. Which will include bringing this blog back again. And hopefully as I enjoy this academic year, I will have lots of life to give this little site.

P.S. I will eventually finish my travel writings! I'll be darned if I don't!

Travel post a little late: Paris, part 1

Paris, in all its majestic and historically-rich glory, is one of the most breathtaking places in the world. And it is personally my favorite place. Beneath the abundance of cigarette smoke and funky odors drifting around the metro is a city like no other. Paris does get some schtick for being a hoity-toity, pretentious metropolis (and in MANY ways, it certainly is) but it only seems so if you are consumed in all the stereotypes too much. When you are enriched in all the culture and history and are opened to what the city has to offer, it truly is a wonderful city. Simply wonderful.

Like any big tourist-attracting city, the locals may get a bit snobby towards visitors. Some people still don't pick up their dogs' crap from the sidewalks. And of course, you can never ever be too mindful of your belongings. But all the cobblestone streets lead to such great adventure. You can strip away all the bad and have an amazing experience.

I spent six days (!!!) in Paris, which gave me time to explore many things that I haven't seen before. I've been to Paris a few times before, but certainly not like this. The first two days were spent with a family friend, and the last four were spent with a cousin (whom I hadn't seen in almost 15 years!!).

My stay with the family friend was spent seeing all the big touristy hot spots. Sure, I've been all of them before...but Paris can't be complete without the Eiffel Tower!

I started my day at Musée D'Orsay, one of the famous art museums in Paris. I had visited D'Orsay the last time I was in Paris, but did not have enough time to see all the art. After some time at the art museum, we spent some time relaxing on the lawn in front of the Eiffel Tower and then visited Paris Plages, which is a strip of "beach" right by the Seine. There is a stretch of sand by the river so people can sunbathe or kids can play in the sand. There's also many activities and events that happen on Paris Plages, like water aerobics (did I mention there is a pool right by the Seine as well?).

The second day started off in Montmartre to see the Sacre Coeur, which is the second highest point in Paris, the Eiffel Tower being the highest, of course. Then we took a waterbus up and down the Siene, making stops at many points throughout the city, including the Champs Elysees.

It was nice seeing all the familiar places, but I think that I'm done with all the touristy things for a while. Luckily, I explored some fresh, new places in Paris during the remainder of my stay. Until the next post!

Travel post a little late: Tortosa

On Friday (July 22), I took a day trip to the lovely village of Tortosa, which is a Catalan town roughly 170 km away from Barcelona. The village is rich in culture and is a landmark of the Spanish Civil War, as well as the medieval times.

I happened to visit Tortosa during their annual festival, which lasts about four days. There were many vendors set up throughout the village streets and people were dressed in Renaissance attire. Children with drums and costumes paraded through the streets for the celebration.

Tortosa is right by the river, so there is always a cool breeze wafting through the narrow roads.

It seems that further into my stay in Spain, my Spanish became more “accepted” by the locals. Of course, I’ve had my “boba” moments where I misplace “cual” with “qué” but I pretty much seem to get my point across most of the time. I also watch cartoons dubbed in Spanish with my little cousins, and I suppose my Spanish comprehension is improving as well, and the cartoons are enjoyable. Well, perhaps they are just more enjoyable after some Sangria.

Friday was my last full day in Spain, and I left for France on Saturday morning. Even though I was only there for a few days, I felt as if I was there for ages. Being in this country made me even more excited to study in Oviedo next Spring.

Travel post a little late: Barcelona

I arrived in Barcelona early Wednesday (July 20^th), and before you could say “bienvenidos,” I was already whisked off to see much of the city with no time to tidy myself up after a long flight.

Like a smart traveler, I wore jeans on my flight. Unlike a smart traveler, I didn’t think to change into something more comfortable; thus I trekked throughout Barcelona in jeans with my hair and makeup a mess. Luckily, the city isn’t as hot as it usually is during the summer, but I would have much preferred a pair of shorts to jeans. Despite the heat and the blisters on my feet, I thoroughly enjoyed seeing the Catalan capital. And I saw QUITE a lot for one day. Since I did not take a bus tour, most of my travels on Wednesday were on foot, so it was much more walking than I anticipated. Needless to say my feet are incredibly sore!

The city was bustling and lively, not only with tourists like me but also with locals. I started off my day at La Rambla and the Christopher Columbus statue, and wandered through tiny alleys and walkways to see quirky little stores. Of course I saw the big landmarks, including the Cathedral of Barcelona, Casa Batlló, La Pedrera, and La Sagrada Familia. But perhaps my favorite part of Barcelona was Parc Güell. Even though the long walk to get there hurt like hell, the view of the city and the Mediterranean was just…simply breathtaking. I had to pinch myself to see if it was actually real (as queso as it sounds) because quite frankly, I still couldn’t believe that I was in Barcelona. I loved sitting on the swerving mosaic bench and looking at the gorgeous view. Since Parc Güell is located up in the hills, the wind was just perfect and cool.

Of course, the food was FANTASTIC. We did stop at La Boquería early in the day, and it was buzzing with foodies and tourists alike. I enjoyed a fresh jugo de fresas y piñas and snacked on some delicious jamón Serrano. The first thing I saw upon entering La Boquería was all the jamón hung up throughout many of the meat shops, and I knew I had to have some. I’ve eaten so much of it in Spain, and I honestly can’t get enough of them. For lunch we enjoyed some tapas, which included more jamón, some salted fish, mussels, cheese, and a Catalan “pizza” of olives, eggplants, and peppers. Tapas in Barcelona cannot go without a classic: a dish of bread slices that are drizzled with olive oil and rubbed with fresh tomatoes. All were so delicious that naturally my aunt had to order us seconds!

Even though Catalan is considered the “main” language in Barcelona and the rest of Catalonia, I took whichever opportunity I could to practice my Spanish-speaking skills. I have been studying Spanish for about six years, so I suppose that I’m somewhat proficient in the language, despite not having anyone at home to practice with. My Spanish may not be perfect, but I thought that perhaps my effort would be enough to endear some Spaniards. In reality, I wasn’t treated as nicely as my French-speaking relatives were, and truth be told, I don’t know why. Is it because I’m a tourist? Not just a tourist, but also a try-hard tourist? I personally don’t think trying to speak the native tongue in a certain language makes me a try-hard, but perhaps that’s just how they see me. Even the man who sold me the Spanish flag that I bought was very rude. I cannot lie; I was a bit hurt at how cold some people in Barcelona were to me. I even got uncomfortable glances from locals on the metro. Maybe I smell bad? I guess I’ll never know.

Though so far I think that Spaniards outside of Barcelona are much nicer to me. On Thursday I spent some time at the marina in Delta de l'Ebre, which is a town about an hour and a half away from Barcelona. People there were much more accepting of me (and my Spanish), which comforted me a bit. The area around Delta de l'Ebre is known for their rice fields (fit for paella!) and it is also home to great wildlife like flamingoes (and mosquitoes…I have the bites to prove it!)

Barcelona was absolutely wonderful, and I hope that I’ll be there again in the future! There is still a lot to see and explore.